Thursday, June 16, 2011

miss independent.

"He offered her the world. she said she already had her own."


 I sit here and listen to the words of neyo: “She got her own thing, that’s why I love her, Miss Independent ooh the way you shine….”And I think to myself wow. Life is too short to be living up to everyone’s expectations.

I have seen so many women- of all ages- young to mature, who have always held such strong convictions about their independence and the future they have always wanted. Yet, they suddenly drop everything for the one they love. 
Sure these are dearly beloveds of ours-whom we cannot imagine living without- however there comes a certain point where one (a strong-minded independent young woman) must do things for herself and forget abut living up to who or what people want you to become.
You are you. And no one else can change that. You may not be perfect but you are heck one of a kind.



Listen to Lady GaGa and follow your dreams no matter what. Nothing is impossible! And never, ever, ever, I repeat, ever, feel as if you have to fulfill something simply because your loved one says so.
If they love you, they will love you for you, and not try to rearrange that picture. They will love you for you and support you for the person whom you are today. They will be your biggest support system and be your truest believer. 
So what are you waiting for? Get out there and change the world, be who you want to be and don’t let anything (or anyone) stand in your way. 
You are all strong minded, willing, independent, unique women each worthy of a man’s honesty, trust, love and respect and should never be considered nothing less!.
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Gros bisous,
xxxx